For 2 long loud days,
John has held together:
Good behavior choices at school, after-school speech, playing at the park with kids, basketball & Cub Scouts Pinewood Derby celebration.
Two nights in a row, John has told Dad, “I want to go home”.
He was able to choose telling Dad instead of having a public melt-down.
(This hasn’t always happened, right?)
This is called “meta-cognition” (“I am thinking about my thinking”).
Let this encourage you to keep working with your kids for their self-awareness.
And then the victory of telling you what they need.
John and I practice this all the time.
Our kids can use this skill for their entire life.
Peace be with us.
Gayle