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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Sep 2016 19:13:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gayle Y. Fisher, M.Ed.,Ed.Tech.</dc:creator>
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				<description><![CDATA[My Kid Had Me Over A Barrel And It Wasn't Pretty. One vacation morning this summer, John whipped out his worst restaurant manners in a long time. I re-directed him (using the least prompting I could muster) to order his own food, ask for his own straw, help with check-out procedures, and to curtail the rowdy napkin tricks. (Later I asked him to re-create the napkin [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em id="gnt_postsubtitle" style="color:#666666;font-family:'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:1.3em;line-height:1.2em;font-weight:normal;font-style:italic;">My Kid Had Me Over A Barrel And It Wasn't Pretty</em></p> <p><img data-recalc-dims="1" fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-1097" src="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.comwp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5-555x1024.jpg?resize=269%2C496&#038;ssl=1" alt="Napkin Dance5" width="269" height="496" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5.jpg?resize=555%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 555w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5.jpg?resize=149%2C274&amp;ssl=1 149w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5.jpg?resize=163%2C300&amp;ssl=1 163w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5.jpg?resize=768%2C1417&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5.jpg?resize=760%2C1402&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5.jpg?resize=217%2C400&amp;ssl=1 217w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5.jpg?resize=82%2C151&amp;ssl=1 82w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5.jpg?resize=600%2C1107&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance5.jpg?w=896&amp;ssl=1 896w" sizes="(max-width: 269px) 100vw, 269px" /> <img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-1096" src="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.comwp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-1-391x1024.jpg?resize=190%2C498&#038;ssl=1" alt="Napkin Dance" width="190" height="498" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-1.jpg?resize=391%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 391w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-1.jpg?resize=105%2C274&amp;ssl=1 105w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-1.jpg?resize=115%2C300&amp;ssl=1 115w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-1.jpg?resize=153%2C400&amp;ssl=1 153w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-1.jpg?resize=76%2C200&amp;ssl=1 76w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-1.jpg?resize=600%2C1572&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-1.jpg?w=704&amp;ssl=1 704w" sizes="(max-width: 190px) 100vw, 190px" /> One vacation morning this summer, John whipped out his worst restaurant manners in a long time.</p>
<p>I re-directed him (using the least prompting I could muster) to <img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-1094" src="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.comwp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2-565x1024.jpg?resize=268%2C485&#038;ssl=1" alt="Napkin Dance 2" width="268" height="485" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2.jpg?resize=565%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 565w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2.jpg?resize=151%2C274&amp;ssl=1 151w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2.jpg?resize=166%2C300&amp;ssl=1 166w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2.jpg?resize=768%2C1391&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2.jpg?resize=760%2C1376&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2.jpg?resize=221%2C400&amp;ssl=1 221w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2.jpg?resize=82%2C149&amp;ssl=1 82w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2.jpg?resize=600%2C1087&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Napkin-Dance-2.jpg?w=932&amp;ssl=1 932w" sizes="(max-width: 268px) 100vw, 268px" />order his own food, ask for his own straw, help with check-out procedures, and to curtail the rowdy napkin tricks.</p>
<p>(Later I asked him to re-create the napkin dance for you, and here&#8217;s three photos of what we got.)</p>
<p>How hard can it be to just stick a napkin under a leg until you need it?  And why does it always include the topic of wieners?</p>
<p>We opted for a big-boy flat plate, not the bowl that is easier to corral the food.</p>
<p>He got up and ran around with the dang napkin, doing what I called the napkin dance.</p>
<p>And finally, at the end of our &#8220;performance&#8221;,  he had the natural consequence of sitting quietly for four whole minutes, earning the right to ask to be excused.</p>
<p>He did it.   So now I know he can do it again.<img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="wp-image-1093 aligncenter" src="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.comwp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3-1024x576.jpg?resize=563%2C317&#038;ssl=1" alt="Computer Time3" width="563" height="317" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?resize=1024%2C576&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?resize=209%2C118&amp;ssl=1 209w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?resize=768%2C432&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?resize=760%2C428&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?resize=518%2C291&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?resize=82%2C46&amp;ssl=1 82w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?resize=600%2C338&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?w=2048&amp;ssl=1 2048w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/09/Computer-Time3.jpg?w=1520&amp;ssl=1 1520w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 563px) 100vw, 563px" /></p>
<p>Peace be with us,</p>
<p>Gayle</p>
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