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				<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s what is working great to manipulate John. To do what I want him to do. And yet he thinks he&#8217;s in charge and empowered. I yell out, &#8220;I&#8217;m going to win!&#8221; Another version of the game. This is also working for the morning car-pool / bus run and when I need him to take [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Here&#8217;s what is working great to manipulate John.</p>



<p> To do what I want him to do.</p>



<p>And yet he thinks he&#8217;s in charge and empowered.</p>



<p>I yell out, &#8220;I&#8217;m going to win!&#8221;  </p>



<p><a rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="Another version of the game (opens in a new tab)" href="https://ifwelearndifferently.comim-gonna-win/" target="_blank">Another version of the game</a>.</p>



<p>This is also working for the morning car-pool / bus run</p>



<p>and when I need him to take his vitamins / supplements.</p>



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<div class="wp-block-image"><figure class="aligncenter"><img decoding="async" width="4032" height="3024" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?fit=760%2C570" alt="" class="wp-image-4151" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?w=4032&amp;ssl=1 4032w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?resize=209%2C157&amp;ssl=1 209w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?resize=760%2C570&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?resize=518%2C389&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?resize=82%2C62&amp;ssl=1 82w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?resize=131%2C98&amp;ssl=1 131w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?resize=600%2C450&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?w=1520&amp;ssl=1 1520w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/20190911_074033.jpg?w=2280&amp;ssl=1 2280w" sizes="(max-width: 760px) 100vw, 760px" /><figcaption>Twice a day, at least, this gamification of a requirement.</figcaption></figure></div>



<p>John almost died from fire ant bites at age 21 months.  Anaphylactic reaction.  </p>



<p>And it happened again as we were re-calibrating his immune system to survive fire ants here in Texas.</p>



<p>We will always be grateful to Dr. Stephen Miles and the project with Fort Hood soldiers, for the specific medical protocol.</p>



<p>We are now free of the Epi-Pen.  </p>



<p>It took 3-4 years of monthly jabs with medically-supervised increasing amounts of formic acid.  </p>



<p>I like to think of fire ants blenderized, but that&#8217;s just my mom mind.</p>



<p>John&#8217;s immune system was compromised as a pre-mature birth, </p>



<p>and with the massive jolt of the anaphylactic reaction, we have been trying to catch up since age 21 months.  </p>



<p>Want to talk methylation?  Mitochondria?  John is all tall and no wide.   Skinny, low muscle tone.  Developmental Delay.  </p>



<p>Sound familiar?</p>



<p>To continue to repair his immune system,  nutrition and swallowing vitamins became an intervention. </p>



<p><a href="https://ifwelearndifferently.comswallowing-on-purpose/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="Pill-Swallowing #1 (opens in a new tab)">Pill-Swallowing #1</a></p>



<p><a href="https://ifwelearndifferently.comswallowing-on-purpose-part-2/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="Pill-Swallowing #2 (opens in a new tab)">Pill-Swallowing #2</a></p>



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<p>So if you are <a href="https://ifwelearndifferently.comhustle-buddy/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="struggling to get or keep your kids on schedule, try a variation (opens in a new tab)">struggling to get or keep your kids on schedule, try a variation</a>?</p>



<p>For example:  &#8220;I bet you can&#8217;t get your vitamins done before I drive us to &#8230;.&#8221;</p>



<p>Whatever you are doing,  with loving, laughing, friendly competition.</p>



<p>Getting your kids to do something they need to do.</p>



<p>I have tried nagging.  Doesn&#8217;t work!</p>



<p>Peace be with us.</p>



<p>Gayle</p>

                
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