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				<description><![CDATA[Intrinsic Motivation Because of Neuro-Typical Peers. Do your neuro-diverse children (let&#8217;s call them &#8220;learning differences&#8221;) pay attention to other children? Far more than they pay attention to you as parents? So, here is what we did for academics during the recent Hurricane Harvey school hiatus: Photos of academic and social-emotional learning for John. It&#8217;s magic.  Peer pressure, from the inside out. [&#8230;]]]></description>
					<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em id="gnt_postsubtitle" style="color:#666666;font-family:'Helvetica Neue', Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif;font-size:1.3em;line-height:1.2em;font-weight:normal;font-style:italic;">Intrinsic Motivation Because of Neuro-Typical Peers</em></p> <p><img data-recalc-dims="1" fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-2235" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food-1024x576.jpg?resize=339%2C191" alt="" width="339" height="191" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?resize=1024%2C576&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?resize=209%2C118&amp;ssl=1 209w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?resize=768%2C432&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?resize=760%2C428&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?resize=518%2C291&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?resize=82%2C46&amp;ssl=1 82w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?resize=600%2C338&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?w=1520&amp;ssl=1 1520w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Cutting-Food.jpg?w=2280&amp;ssl=1 2280w" sizes="(max-width: 339px) 100vw, 339px" /><img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-2168" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850-1024x768.jpg?resize=241%2C181" alt="" width="241" height="181" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?resize=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?resize=209%2C157&amp;ssl=1 209w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?resize=760%2C570&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?resize=518%2C389&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?resize=82%2C62&amp;ssl=1 82w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?resize=131%2C98&amp;ssl=1 131w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?resize=600%2C450&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?w=1520&amp;ssl=1 1520w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model5-e1504965850850.jpg?w=2280&amp;ssl=1 2280w" sizes="(max-width: 241px) 100vw, 241px" /></p>
<p>Do your neuro-diverse children (let&#8217;s call them &#8220;learning differences&#8221;) pay attention to other children?</p>
<p>Far more than they pay attention to you as parents?</p>
<p>So, here is what we did for academics during the recent Hurricane Harvey school hiatus:</p>
<p>Photos of academic and social-emotional learning for John.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s magic.  Peer pressure, from the inside out.</p>
<p>If I had tried to get him to do this&#8230;&#8230;.oh, we would have had such push-back.</p>
<p>Just add a few peer models, and everything changes.<img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-2167" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3-1024x576.jpg?resize=317%2C178" alt="" width="317" height="178" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?resize=1024%2C576&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?resize=209%2C118&amp;ssl=1 209w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?resize=768%2C432&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?resize=760%2C428&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?resize=518%2C291&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?resize=82%2C46&amp;ssl=1 82w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?resize=600%2C338&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?w=1520&amp;ssl=1 1520w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model3.jpg?w=2280&amp;ssl=1 2280w" sizes="(max-width: 317px) 100vw, 317px" /><img data-recalc-dims="1" loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-2164" src="https://i0.wp.com/www.ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4-1024x576.jpg?resize=321%2C181" alt="" width="321" height="181" srcset="https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?resize=1024%2C576&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?resize=209%2C118&amp;ssl=1 209w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?resize=300%2C169&amp;ssl=1 300w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?resize=768%2C432&amp;ssl=1 768w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?resize=760%2C428&amp;ssl=1 760w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?resize=518%2C291&amp;ssl=1 518w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?resize=82%2C46&amp;ssl=1 82w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?resize=600%2C338&amp;ssl=1 600w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?w=1520&amp;ssl=1 1520w, https://i0.wp.com/ifwelearndifferently.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/role-model-4.jpg?w=2280&amp;ssl=1 2280w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 321px) 100vw, 321px" /></p>
<p>Miraculous teaching moments!</p>
<p>Nothing gets John&#8217;s attention like another kid.</p>
<p>So, I use that.  Shamelessly.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ifwelearndifferently.com/?p=1009">Cutting his own food in the restaurant:</a>  His happy face here because his buddies were doing it also.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ifwelearndifferently.com/?p=2109">First mom-free monetary transaction</a>.</p>
<p>May I suggest you build your child&#8217;s village?</p>
<p>There are so many pro-active ways.</p>
<p>With huge payout.</p>
<p>Peace be with us.</p>
<p>Gayle</p>
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